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Connoisseur [369]
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Tigernetters I need some advice.. please help.....
May 5, 2007, 9:10 AM
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Me and my girlfriend of 2.5 years just broke up for the second time and I am pretty sure we are not going to get back together. Long story but to make it short we have Clemson Football tickets together and this year we have already paid our money to get this season tickets. So what do I do? She paid for hers, and I paid for mine. Should I ask her if I can buy her set from her and sell them to my buddie, or what? I mean I am not sure what to do or when to even ask her about them. I mean I dont want to ask her right away, because that would be crazy.... but when would be a good time to ask her about the ticekts. Any advice would be nice!!
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Hall of Famer [21888]
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LMAO. You're asking for advice HERE?
May 5, 2007, 9:12 AM
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Good luck.
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Orange Blooded [2955]
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ok i just went through the same situation
May 5, 2007, 9:21 AM
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wait about a week and just out of the blue call her. Say I was talking to some collegues at work about Clemson today, and it came to my attention that we have season tix together. At first offer to go with her. It could be good to be friends.(Thats what I'm doing), but if she declines ask her if she wants to sell her tix to you or what she had in mind. Ask questions and make her tell you. If you tell her what you want it will only start a fight. Me and my ex have actually become good friends. I know it seems wierd but it seems to be working for us. Just act like you don't care what she does with them but also let her know "nicely" that you are not relinquishing your tix. Good luck. I hope everything goes according to plan, and if you can by them from her. use the or post them here
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All-In [44073]
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The friends thing will stop working once either of you
May 5, 2007, 9:57 AM
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starts seeing someone else. If that happens before the end of Clemson football season, you guys are going to have a miserable time in Death Valley (you are, at least).
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Know-it-all [2486]
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Ridiculous, but I'll help...
May 5, 2007, 9:21 AM
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Where are the tickets mailed to? You're SOL if they're mailed to her and she's a mean ole witch. You might not get them at all if that's the case.
But if they're mailed to you, wait at least a few weeks from now to ask her about them and offer to buy her half from her. If she refuses or says she wants twice as much for them, be a man and say, "See you at the games."
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Junkie [411]
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where
May 5, 2007, 9:22 AM
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are the tickets to be mailed? 2 checks or 1 written?if your check and coming to you,it's her problem;if not you might not have tickets.LEARN my friend,LEARN from this!
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If you are going to get the tickets in the mail,
May 5, 2007, 9:27 AM
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then just give her the money for one set. Unless yall have a child, there is no reason to be scared to make her made. That being said, you are a Clemson man and should pay her money back to her. Don't steal the tickets. If she gets the tickets, then buy tickets at the game. Also, don't take a buddy, take a pretty girl. You will run into your ex at least once during the season.
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null [280]
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Send her a letter that says:
May 5, 2007, 9:29 AM
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Welcome to Dumpsville...population YOU
Then tell her thanks for the tickets.
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All-TigerNet [12188]
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To protect each other's feelings, you both should forfeit
May 5, 2007, 9:30 AM
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your tickets and give them to me, that is the only fair compromise!
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Scholar [4739]
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First off I'd tell you....
May 5, 2007, 9:36 AM
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ask someone, anyone, other than this board!!
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Orange Blooded [4030]
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If they are mailed to you, keep your mouth shut and enjoy...
May 5, 2007, 9:39 AM
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the extra ticket. Remember after 2.5 years, you paid for that ticket MANY times over.
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110%er [9105]
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Advise: don't ask tnet for advise***
May 5, 2007, 9:41 AM
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Junkie [538]
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Trick her, she is just a girl. Brain is 1/3 size-ask Borat***
May 5, 2007, 9:53 AM
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Hall of Famer [24236]
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You sure he was not talking about the usc-e frat brothers ?***
May 5, 2007, 11:47 AM
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All-In [44073]
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Who ended the relationship?
May 5, 2007, 10:00 AM
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That could be important here.
Also, HOW did it end? Was it an angry, bitter breakup or civil and mature?
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All-TigerNet [12092]
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Afraid I'm going to need a picture***
May 5, 2007, 10:05 AM
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Standout [347]
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If she's hot she can just go with me...I've got an extra.***
May 5, 2007, 10:20 AM
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Scout Team [151]
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Can you just be honest and communicate with her on an adult.
May 5, 2007, 10:24 AM
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level and ask her what she wants to do with her tickets, and see where that conversation takes you.
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Standout [347]
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Too boring for TNET!***
May 5, 2007, 10:27 AM
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CU Medallion [53425]
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If they get mailed to your house......
May 5, 2007, 10:35 AM
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hold them ransom. Make her your #####!
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110%er [9174]
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Just send me the tickets
May 5, 2007, 1:39 PM
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one less thing to settle in litigation...
-Doc
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