You know what a rattlesnake has in common with a condom

I think.

I'm not over it yet. At lease once every few weeks I dream about her. Actually, that's what woke me after the short sleep I got this morning.

I was raise to understand that people get married and that's it. I think the guilt of not making it work or being able to make it work bothers me. When I dream about her it's always the same. We have a short period of normalcy then she breaks my trust again. There is no evidence she ever cheated but she would climb a telephone pole and tell a lie before she would sit in a recliner and tell the truth.

Last night I dreamed that she was honest and sincere and want to put our family back together. I refused. I guess I wanted it to end long before it ended.

I guess for me it's was a deep wound that's kinda healed but it's gonna leave a mark for sure.

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It gets much better.

Oct 1, 2015, 3:51 PM

I was the one that instigated my divorce. Not much to it other than I wasn't happy, hadn't been in a while, and didn't see that changing. I walked out of the house with a suitcase of clothes and left the rest to her. Ended up paying ~$30,000 per year in alimony and child support for about 5 years until she got remarried. The only other way out of that was for her to die (which I had prepared some good schemes for should she not get remarried in a reasonable time frame). The amount of debt I built up sucked. My relationship with my daughter had to completely be rebuilt. It was very hard for the first several years in many different ways. But sad sack story aside, I wasn't happy in the relationship and the transition was tough, but all of that was worth it. Ashleymadison.com was really a life saver and my doctor in town here is good. She could always recognize what I had in no time at all, give me a prescription to take care of it, and get my Viagara refill at the same time. Sometimes I'd leave with a prescription for some Ambien "to help me sleep on the international flights". Those came in handy on those lonely Friday nights when I was tired of hogging it at the IBG and just wanted to vanish. There were a few nights where I had too much and the combination of vomiting with the beer ##### was a mess to clean up in the morning. I'll admit, it was kind of fun after the first few times to try to figure out what the smell was when I finally woke up the next morning. I still think the vomit odor was stronger, but I had several people ask me if a cat took a dump in the house. I don't have a cat.

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tell Fran to rock on.***

Thanks, Fran says it feels odd

tell Fran it's weird fo everybody in their own way.

why dont you ask the divorce queen of the lunge?***

Well, you have two X chromosones

Its actually left up to your friend

totes a weird feeling for my friend

for anybody.***

Do women ever come out on the bad end of a divorce?

I've NEVER screwed over a to be ex.. no reason to

Absolutely.

Tell me the oddness, weirdness goes away

I was married for 28 years, never even came close to

thanks for the perspective

you're not gonna go off on some weird food thing are you?

Nope. I have eschewed food

well that's prolly a plus.

I'm sure if you gave him

I'm re-married, but yes,....

My take.

I've been separated for 12 and divorced for ten come spring.

Yes.

best thing that ever happened to me***

Exercise and take care of your health

I thought that was just so you could get buff and pull

Tell your frand I'm sorry, and that I

She's a girl, right?***

Yes******

eventually***

The variety in the responses in this thread is fascinating.

I never understand dudes who end up giving half their ####

It gets much better.

Not sure if JoungeGOLD or just Sad.***

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