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What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 10:58 AM
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I nearly had an altercation with some UNC fans at the game the other night.
I wasn't going to post this but an ongoing debate with ALLweatherfan jr has me wondering AITA (Am I The A-hole) in this situation.
I'm sitting there minding my own business.
I hear a group of 4 UNC fans behind me bemoaning their teams lack of ability in this game. These are young guys, maybe early 20's. I was expecting preppy wine and cheese types but notice these were more goofy Beavis and Butthead types, they have filthy language, F this, F that the worse UNC plays the worse their language gets. ALLweatherfan jr says they were high.
Right before half, I feel a large quantity of a drink cover the back of my head and runs down my neck, inside my shirt and down my back. I immediately assume that they knocked over or dropped their drink. But they are all laughing and the guy directly behind me says "I'm sorry I spit on you, my friend said something funny. I jerked my head around and said "That was from your mouth?!?? Who does that?" They run off to as it is now halftime. I go to the bathroom to clean myself up, as I am a bit of a germaphobe and it is flu season. Since this came from his mouth I think, I'd better go to the first aid station and try and get some kind of disinfecting spray. They only have disinfecting wipes.
I thought I would calm down but the more I thought about it as I am basically trying to shampoo my hair in the bathroom sink at Littlejohn, the madder I got.
When I returned to my seat after halftime I see them there and I march up to the guy and put my finger in his face and say, "This happens one time, its an accident, but if you do anything like this to me again and I'm gonna bounce you off the concrete, DO YOU UNDERSTAND ME?"
He understood. After I sat down the kid next to him is mumbling something about fighting and getting himself thrown out of there but they never acted upon this impulse. When fans in front of us left early, I moved down a row to further distance myself.
ALLweatherfan Jr was mortified at the whole incident and thinks I overreacted and the kid didn't mean it. I could almost buy this if they would've stopped giggling afterwards. But seriously, who does this? If I was in his shoes I would've spit on my lap before spitting on someone else. Especially a direct shot to the back of someone's head. As a long suffering Clemson fan, going back to the days of watching UNC employ the 4 corners, it really took away my enjoyment of the monumental beatdown of them.
What would you do in this situation?
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All-Pro [705]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:03 AM
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I would have hocked up a lugie, and spit it right in his face. ### for tat.
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Hall of Famer [8533]
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You handled it A LOT better than I would have.....***
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:06 AM
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Dynasty Maker [3534]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:09 AM
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I would've proceeded to dump my coke over his head....totally uncalled for.
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National Champion [7754]
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You r def at fault
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:25 AM
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For not grabbing him by the short hairs and taking him to security to be excommunicated from LJ.
Cruisin 4 a bruisin!
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CU Medallion [18629]
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It's a tough call. There's a he and she a-hole pair that now sit behind me
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:38 AM
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in Death Valley. They are constantly screaming at the coaches even when we are winning. At least twice a game there's the flow of drink down under my feet from them. All their trash comes down from them. The she-hole constantly puts her feet on my bench, and inevitable kicks me. Really makes the game a terrible experience for me. I have said something on numerous occasions, which only results in them saying it wasn't them and mumbling about me under their breath. Next season may be the one where we get into it physically.
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TigerNet Elite [69061]
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You handled it better than I would have...
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Feb 12, 2025, 11:51 AM
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My initial impulse would have been to mop the floor with him and let his buddies watch so they could see what they had coming should they decide to get involved.
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National Champion [7432]
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You took the high road even though you wanted to beat his a zz.
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:34 PM
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That is what a Clemson Gentleman does. Now, if it happens a second time, then you proceed to introduce this clown to the five-finger death punch!
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Hall of Famer [8219]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:35 PM
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You get an A + for civilized restraint! Handled it better than I could have.
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Playmaker [394]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:41 PM
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You probably did the right thing. Every team has bad fans. UNC does, UGA does, Clemson does, every team does. You don't want to be the one to start physical contact, because then you would be the bad guy. But you had every right to get in his face and dress him down. And he never acted after that (other than his buddy mumbling fake threats). Good for you.
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CU Medallion [18878]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:41 PM
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You did well. Most people can't act right any more.
GO TIGERS!!!
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I don't understand the wine and cheese stereotype.
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:41 PM
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I have been around plenty of UNC fans, and have not found them to be anything like that. Most are rednecks just like you find in plenty of other fanbases.
They do not exude class or wealth any more than you find in segments of every fan base.
They are a public school, not an elite private school.
Their AD is named Bubba for crying out loud.
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Paw Warrior [4693]
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:47 PM
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Sounds like you handled it well. There’s just no place for that kind of behavior in any public arena. As a UNC alum I’ll make 2 assumptions:
1) They were drunk?
2) They are not alums and simply went to Wal Mart and bought blue tee shirts.
Sorry that happened to you.
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Dynasty Maker [3534]
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Feb 12, 2025, 12:54 PM
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Probably undercover coots🤣
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Paw Warrior [4693]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
Feb 12, 2025, 1:00 PM
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Could be?!??
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Valley Legend [12202]
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Couldve been students, they looked early 20s
Feb 12, 2025, 8:38 PM
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My son said they were high, I had my back to them the whole game and the only time I was turned their way was immediately after the spitting and when I returned from the restroom.
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Orange Beast [6559]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 1:22 PM
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Hard to say what I would have done. Back in the day, I'd fight at the drop of a hat, other times, I've let greater offenses slide. Seeing as how I'm old and worn out, discretion is the better part of valor, but who knows. At any rate, I don't fault your reaction. Seems like you got your message across.
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Campus Hero [13979]
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You were well within your rights to give him a piece of your mind.***
Feb 12, 2025, 1:45 PM
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TigerNet Icon [149840]
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I am trained in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu
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Feb 12, 2025, 2:37 PM
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and have won a prestigious silver medal in competition. I spend every single day hoping something like this happens to me. You are lucky.
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Clemson Icon [26621]
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Is that the Jiu Jitsu where they bikini wax?***
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Feb 12, 2025, 6:49 PM
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Rival Killer [2659]
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Re: Is that the Jiu Jitsu where they bikini wax?***
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Feb 13, 2025, 7:51 AM
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No, I think its the full-on kind of wax.
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110%er [3762]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
Feb 12, 2025, 2:52 PM
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Ok, so I'm a girl mom and not a guy trying not to mortify his son, but I would have texted "drunk tarheels in section ___" to security and let them address the juvenile sheep or goats or whatever they're supposed to be.
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Paw Master [17747]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
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Feb 12, 2025, 2:53 PM
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You should have invited him for brunch and talked about it.
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Clemson Icon [26621]
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I find it's best to reach out and hug it out
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Feb 12, 2025, 3:08 PM
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while you're hugging it out, slip an air tracker into his coat. Watch him for a couple of weeks and get his daily routine down. After you find when he's vulnerable, tase him and ###### him off the street. Put a bag on his head and zip tie his hands. When you get to your predetermined off the grid location, tie him to a chair and spit down his neck. Kick his chair over and leave him there to think about his actions.
Maybe that's just me.
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Paw Master [17747]
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Re: I find it's best to reach out and hug it out
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Feb 12, 2025, 3:11 PM
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Two mistakes.
1. He has to leave his cell phone at home so he has a better alibi.
2. He wasn't supposed to leave him alive.
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Paw Warrior [4693]
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I woulda broke foot off in his tarhole***
Feb 12, 2025, 3:49 PM
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Paw Warrior [4693]
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Feb 12, 2025, 4:02 PM
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Buddy of mine who played football at Auburn took me to an Auburn / Georgia game at Auburn a few years ago. In the row in front of us sat a mom, dad, 2 small kids, and grandma. In front of them was a Georgia fan probably 20 years old. Right after the opening kickoff Georgia fan starts screaming profanity that would offend a sailor. Grandma stands up, puts her finger 6 inches from his nose and says “young man I will have no more of that!” The boy sat down and I swear he barely clapped the rest of the game.
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Oculus Spirit [39562]
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Sounds like a throatpunc candidate***
Feb 12, 2025, 4:31 PM
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National Champion [7904]
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Why are tarhole fans in area of
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Feb 12, 2025, 5:10 PM
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Clemson fans? I would have thrown drinks on all 3 losers. Then they would have left.
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Valley Legend [12202]
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Section 216 up in the rafters***
Feb 12, 2025, 8:31 PM
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Clemson Conqueror [11206]
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Feb 12, 2025, 5:19 PM
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Can't wait to have beer down my back or running under the seats in Death Valley. Going to be so legit.
No cupholders in Death Valley is going to create a beer nightmare.
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Orange Blooded [2376]
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Re: What would you do in this situation....
Feb 12, 2025, 8:45 PM
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I feel you showed great restraint. I wish I could have acted as you did, but I really don’t like UNC or the majority of their fans.
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