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Can we talk Deshaun a second?
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Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 8:52 AM

I think this kind of applies here since I don't want to get all over the Mange with it and it's too serious for the Lunge. I choose here because I draw some parallels to this case and the Kavanaugh one.

I've had a lot of problems with this case. I still do. I know people instantly write Deshaun off as guilty because of the volume of accusations, and that's where I really have a problem. In short, what's the cut off number of accusations for our society to automatically determine someone is guilty without a trial or evidence? 20? 14? 9?

Deshaun MIGHT be guilty--none of us ####### know. But if he's not, this is travesty and dangerous for our society.

A lot of facts from this case make me dabble into the CharlestonTom/SOLOs level of conspiracy thinking:
-As soon as Deshaun becomes one of the top paid QBs in the NFL and then demands a trade from the Texans, the accusations start to come out.
-All women lawyer up with this sleezy Houston attorney--this is unusual for them all to have the same lawyer.
-He's good friends with the Texans owner, something both he and the lawyer lie about publicly.
-He lies about turning cases over to the Houston PD. They confirm it's a lie.
-Prosecutors take 11 cases to the grand jury. They're all thrown out. If a grand jury won't let a case advance, it means the prosecution has failed miserably in providing evidence.
-Deshaun gets an even bigger contract with the Browns... then more accusations come out.
-Texans owner is a Dirt ######. I mean, someone has to say it.

I draw this back to Kavanaugh. I posted about him during that ordeal, and I said that even though I didn't really care for the guy, I didn't want to see a man's reputation destroyed over an accusation with no evidence. In a situation like his, for the good of America, we MUST err on the side of the accused.

I know this is a bad look for Deshaun. Twenty four accusations makes you believe SOMETHING has to be there. But see... that's the problem. That gets us back to my earlier question: What is the cut-off number where we just automatically assume guilt? Because that's not how our justice system is supposed to work.

Most of the time, when a woman accuses someone of any kind of sexual assault, she's telling the truth. But most of the time isn't good enough to automatically assume guilt without evidence. I point back to the case in Virginia where Rolling Stone got their faces sued off by a fraternity because a woman fabricated a rape story. It happens.

I've tried not to be tainted with orange-colored glasses over the Deshaun situation. If it were anybody else, I've asked myself if I would have the same reaction, and I'm not really sure the answer. But I still hold that something has stunk about this from the beginning, and it still stinks.

I had a friend yesterday say Deshaun should lose a year for every woman he raped. And that highlights the public's ignorance on this case; Deshaun hasn't been accused of ###### anyone. People look at the headlines, listen to soundbites of hype, and pass judgment automatically.

That, to me, is disturbing for everyone, famous or not.





And I'm still not taking those framed Sports Illustrateds off my wall...

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I blame Mia Khalifa


Aug 19, 2022, 9:03 AM

for giving him an unhealthy attitude toward women. No young man that would take care of his caner-stricken mother would treat women this way, at least not until that sloot came along and corrupted his wiener. I would love to give her a piece of my mind.






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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 9:07 AM

Once the money started flowing they all wanted to get on board. My understanding is that all accusers had the same lawyer (correct me if I'm wrong). That and the fact that he hasn't been charged criminally, tells me a lot.

Sexual assault should always be taken seriously, but this idea that some women don't lie about this sort of thing is complete ########.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 9:11 AM

It is disturbing. I can see how the NFL can have punishment for "code of conduct" that may not be an actual crime (made a tik-tok that makes the NFL look bad), but when the accusation is an actual crime; the NFL should draw it's conclusions from there. No court would even bring this to trial; therefore there is basically zero evidence. Then the NFL agreed to the intermediary, and still threw that punishment in the trash. Remember when the commissioner reduced Rapistberger's punishment for "actually" ###### a woman?

It's basically a smear campaign.

"I didn't want to see a man's reputation destroyed over an accusation with no evidence" --- It reminds me a lot of RUSSIA!!!!!! Too bad you support the tactics when it is someone that you don't like. Like I always say, "not every hypocrite is a liberal, but every liberal is a hypocrite."

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This plus, what the heck


Aug 19, 2022, 9:26 AM

NFL hires "third party" to make ruling, ex judge. Makes ruling. NFL then says, ah, forget that, we don't like it, do over with another.

If I were a player, would be really nervous about the lack of due process this case has shown. I know, don't do iffy stuff, but seems like Watson has been railroaded a bit

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i kind of agree...but you also have to weigh...


Aug 19, 2022, 9:37 AM

that he was flying in women from all kinds of different places.

Why fly in 50 some odd different massage therapists. That's really weird and probably telling enough that something wasn't quite right.

If he was just wanting a straight up massage from a decent lookin woman with no sex involved...that isn't possible with existing massage women in Houston?

If I had to guess, I would say there was some degree of him wanting a happy ending...the women knowing that by buying flown there for the massage...then them seeing a payday from the Houston lawyer and it goes from there.

A women being flown in for a massage knows she's going to see a peenus. So don't claim to have been traumatized by it.

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i kinda agree with your kinda agreement


Aug 19, 2022, 9:43 AM

They knew what they were getting into

He shouldn't have been getting them into it

Kind of a two way problem here. He should accept some responsibility and pay and apologize and move on.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 9:39 AM

Well put. I do suspect Deshaun has some odd quirky sexual issues but in the absence of the grand jury even bothering to bring a true bill of indictment, I would have not suspended him nor fined him.

I don't believe he's completely innocent based on what I've read but that doesn't matter.

Some of these women were probably put in uncomfortable situations but this is not how this should have played out. He should be treated innocent until proven guilty. Period.

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that last part ain't happening


Aug 19, 2022, 9:44 AM

It's too easy to shoot first and ask questions later, especially when celebs are involved

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what i assume happened


Aug 19, 2022, 11:18 AM [ in reply to Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second? ]

He hired these women hoping to get handys. Did he ask for them or hint at it? maybe. probably.
Did he force these women and physically assault them like the media is portraying it? I doubt it seriously.

Does anyone have proof of anything? nope.

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To me it seems like just another case of cleatchasters


Aug 19, 2022, 9:46 AM

having remorse after the fact and using the current thing (which at the time was metoo) to their advantage.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 9:51 AM

I don't know what the exact number of different accusers but once it gets into double digits the public in general seems to believe "where there is smoke there is fire".

I've never been convinced that Deshaun assaulted these women or did anything that was not ultimately consensual - mostly for the reasons the OP laid out.

Something I learned in the Army - you never know what people will do behind closed doors. Additionally, I learned that there are some women out in the world who will lie about sexual assault - something I previously did not believe. When I was in command of an AIT unit about 40% of the sexual assault allegations made by women ultimately turned out to be false accusations (all the women making the false accusations would eventually admit to the false accusation when questioned by CID - especially after the accused males took a polygraph to prove their innocence). At first I was shocked by it but ultimately saw that there are quite a few unscrupulous women who will lie about sexual assault to get at a male in trouble or for some other reason (consensual sex regret etc..).

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Yes, women are no different than men in their ability...


Aug 19, 2022, 9:53 AM

to lie...as a general statement.

That's why the "I believe women" BS is such...BS.

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as a cis gendered white male, you don't get a say


Aug 19, 2022, 9:53 AM

the above is what the media and my liberal friends would respond to your post with....

For me, the inability of the prosecution to secure even one indictment is dispositive. The corruption of the owner and the attorney just ads further weight to my opinion.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 9:57 AM

Look, I've been on the train for years this was an invention of Tony Buzbee and Cal McNair, the CEO-but-not-owner of the Houston Texans.

Buzbee's a total scumbag. He made his money on the Deepstar Horizon disaster, and is a high-profile ambulance chaser who once ran for mayor of Houston and got caught making fake videos of his opponent. The dude is a liar and a scumbag.

Cal McNair took the Texans over after his dad died, and he's a clown who was getting a rep as the man who was running the Texans into the ground. People were definitely starting to talk. And here's the rub - while he was the CEO, he's not the owner. His mom Janice inherited the team when her late husband Bob - Cal's dad - died...and mom could fire him if he did a bad enough job of it. And articles like this were starting to emerge:

https://www.houstonchronicle.com/texas-sports-nation/jerome-solomon/article/Solomon-Texans-deplorable-state-begins-with-16506521.php


In the midst of this swoon, McNair got his pants pulled all the way down, and panic-hired a new coach without first consulting with Deshaun as he had promised to do. Deshaun had secured the Tom Brady promise and wanted a say in the direction of the offense. Once that promise was broken, it was apparently the last straw for Deshaun, who demanded to be traded and refused to play for McNair or Houston again.

Oh, and big surprise: Cal McNair lives right across the street from Tony Buzbee, and their families hang out together.

Maybe it's just coincidence. Or maybe McNair, aware he was the author of an epic disaster that would relegate Houston to the laughingstock of the NFL and potentially get him fired even by his own mom, decided to either apply pressure to Deshaun, get revenge for his comeuppetance and put the employee in his place...or maybe deflect blame for the whole mess onto Deshaun and away from himself. Or all three. And maybe Buzbee decided to turn Deshaun's well-known love of the honeys into something...more.

Buzbee's always been good at creating spectacle, and making much of a muchness without any ability to deliver, well, anything, has always been his M.O. Just throw mud until the mark settles. Deshaun has refused to admit guilt or settle even when it was to his advantage to do so. And then when you consider that Ashely Solis is the face of the accusers...well, you decide. I mean, this kind of struck me as a high-school-rendition-of-Death of a Salesman-level bad, as far as acting jobs went. I mean, yeesh.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbZlLBTO1B4

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my only problem I see is the tv pundits flat out sayin


Aug 19, 2022, 9:57 AM

he assaulted women.

Based off what proof do they say such things with such confidence?

maybe he did. maybe he didnt. No one knows, but they act like its proven fact he assaulted women.

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Re: my only problem I see is the tv pundits flat out sayin


Aug 19, 2022, 10:02 AM

Oh come on now. The media wouldn't lie or sensationalize

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Watch the Manti Teo doc. The biggest takeaway is how POS the


Aug 19, 2022, 10:06 AM

media is.

They took the story and started calling him gay, that he planned it, etc...
These aren't jungers, these are espn and MSM hosts. I would've sued their ##### off if I were him

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Re: Watch the Manti Teo doc. The biggest takeaway is how POS the


Aug 19, 2022, 10:23 AM

I've watched the first episode on Teo on Netflix and it's definitely eye opening. This young man was a good bit weird having an internet girlfriend he never met.

However, Teo and his entire family were victims. The kid had a pure heart and was very naive. He was exploited by a weirdo and then the media.

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the 2nd episode is where it gets crazy***


Aug 19, 2022, 10:54 AM



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if the media pundits say anything differently, they


Aug 19, 2022, 10:03 AM [ in reply to my only problem I see is the tv pundits flat out sayin ]

will lose their job after an al sharpton type shake down by Femi-Nazis

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Re: my only problem I see is the tv pundits flat out sayin


Aug 19, 2022, 11:04 AM [ in reply to my only problem I see is the tv pundits flat out sayin ]

https://twitter.com/VSiNLive/status/1560622611679219713?s=20&t=uQwkYEN3RQX55ACn0shmqQ

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GMAFB... a sanctimonious scammer broadcasting from Vegas


Aug 19, 2022, 11:21 AM

I wonder how many 'massage therapists' are working 'house calls' for the casino he's broadcasting from...

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 10:20 AM

11 games is a really strange suspension, until you look and see that his first week back is AT HOUSTON. The NFL knows exactly what they’re doing, and it’s not about white knighting for women.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 10:25 AM

It's not a good look, but being a horny b@stard is not a crime. 2 grand jury's found that he committed 0 crimes. Was he a little creepy? Probably. Did he bang 70 women? Probably. That is not a crime.

When the first 4 women's names came out they all had instagrams with them in lingerie advertising their "massage" services. Those are hookers. It's a money grab, and because he banged so many of them, there were a lot of accusers trying to make money.

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Re: Can we talk Deshaun a second?


Aug 19, 2022, 10:26 AM

I take all rape/sexual abuse allegations with a grade of slaw.

My now ex wife accused me of sexual abuse. Thankfully I had evidence(pics, videos, texts) that proved she was a liar. If someone you've known for 15 Years can stoop to that in order to get money, no doubt in my mind that a woman you barely know will do it.

I remember my attorney telling me that probably 80% of the women he represented in divorce/custody battles were LYING about sexual abuse/physical abuse. (But, as their attorney, he had to represent them to the best of his ability)

Sucks but it is what it is.

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He's a sick pervert, I like it***


Aug 19, 2022, 10:34 AM



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Well, he sure comes in handy


Aug 19, 2022, 10:39 AM

When he's flushed from the pocket on 4th down and goal with 6 seconds left.

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Aug 19, 2022, 11:04 AM



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I got into a huge thing on the mange about this yesterday.


Aug 19, 2022, 11:37 AM

The NFL basically assumed, after two grand juries failed to find sufficient evidence to charge, and after he has maintained his innocence the whole time, that he still must be guilty. Until he went to The Browns, all that had been established was that he visited multiple massage therapists for massages. It was never established that he did anything wrong. Then the NFL found a judge who believed some of the accusations after all, and now he's being punished.

I get it, they are protecting their brand, and the appearance of wrongdoing is almost as harmful to the brand as actual wrongdoing. The good news is that DW will still be a multi-millionaire, and still get to live his dream playing in the NFL. The bad news is, he will always be known as a sexual predator, whether he is guilty or not.

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I'll trade with him right now.***


Aug 19, 2022, 11:41 AM



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Life is full of trade-offs.***


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The most glaring issue to me is that over 20 women


Aug 19, 2022, 11:39 AM

have accused him of "sexual assault'" but NOT ONE of them went to the police after it happened.

They all were told they could get a six figure pay day without having the public knowing their names. Of course they're gonna sign on. They give hand jobs for a living, why not?!

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Lotta good responses, no need to reply to them all


Aug 19, 2022, 12:52 PM

Seems a lot of people feel that same way. I now feel I can't even argue or debate this with others for fear of being labeled a defender of a sexual predator. Again, that's why this is so frightening. I've seen a real mob mentality grow over Deshaun and this with little to no objective thinking or critical thought about all the moving parts.

I will say I at least have one kinda victory on this. I have a feathered friend who started going on about it, then I reminded him of the Kavanaugh situation. He took a step back and acknowledged that was a good point.

But that's about the only rational Gamecock I've talked to on this topic.

Still, it seems the shelf life on defending Deshaun is running out lest we become targeted by the mob as well.

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Like most controversy, two things can be true at once:


Aug 19, 2022, 12:59 PM

There are some hard realities to face here.

There could be some serious back-door dealing between Mcnair and Buzbee. We'll probably never know for sure. If in fact that happened, it should be a public shaming of the highest order. Just because the circumstances suggest the conditions were right for that to have happened doesn't necessarily mean it happened, though.

We should certainly apply the same standard to DW. Just because there is evidence that he flew in several dozen different ladies for one time massage trips doesn't mean he actually did anything wrong... except that argument doesn't quite feel right, does it? The question people should be asking DW is whether he got happy endings. Then the public should look inward and ask themselves, "if he did, is that bad?"

And therein lies the true struggle. In a culture where open promiscuity is publicly accepted, why should prostitution be frowned upon? If the act is trivialized to the point that it has become, what makes transactional approach wrong?

Mind you, my answers (and IIRC DW subscribes to the same worldview) to these questions come from a biblical worldview, so I have a foundation with which to look at DW's situation and say it was morally wrong to get happy endings and ethically wrong to speak two-faced (I'm innocent + I accept responsibility for my actions), though he may not have criminally implicated himself. A reasonable person can look at the evidence of DW's actions and at the very least come to the conclusion that he was attempting to get happy endings.

DW was/is caught in a trap of his own making that gave McNair and Buzbee an opportunity to exploit. If they did, and only if they did, I can discern that as morally and ethically wrong to attack an employe as revenge or pressure for whatever reason.

So, in summary, both parties could be guilty of moral wrong. This means I can be a Clemson fan, appreciate what DW did and who he projected to be while he was here, I can root for him to recover, but I can also consider what he did to be morally a bad thing.

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I'm trying to figure out when it became a crime to ask for a


Aug 19, 2022, 1:11 PM

happy ending.

If it is, somebody is gonna need to round up most men in America..because I'm sure at some point pretty much every one has asked.

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im going to push back on that thought


Aug 19, 2022, 1:32 PM

1. and most importantly, does the fact that many people have done a wrong thing make it acceptable/okay? it may make it a bit easier to empathize with, but that should not be the guide.

2. the nfl, as imperfect and messed up as their punishments are, are inflicting discipline, not adjuticating a crime. that is the one sure thing all have to agree on, DW was cleared of criminal wrongdoing by a jury, so much so it didnt even reach trial.

words matter, especially with controversial subjects.

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Re: Like most controversy, two things can be true at once:


Aug 19, 2022, 1:13 PM [ in reply to Like most controversy, two things can be true at once: ]

to put a bow on that though, while i can see and appreciate how you got the comparison between DW and Kavanaugh, i dont see it that way. K had one accuser from decades prior with zero corroborating evidence. much was made about that. DW had dozens come out of the woodwork with at least several that i remember with confirmed relationships (flights, messaging,etc). the evidence, while not criminally convicting, is more prevalent and more substantial than K.

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When there is ever a doubt, I choose money.


Aug 19, 2022, 1:21 PM

Where there's smoke...there is someone trying to take someone else's money, often by the worst reasons humanity can muster and be ###### the collateral damage. That's what it always all boils down to.

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not guilty


Aug 19, 2022, 2:05 PM

all parties knew what they were doing

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