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Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:05 AM
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Soooo... we have a large dudes group chat for the neighborhood. Everyone's wives, however, not all buddies. A few of the guys in there are single. Well, there's also a newly separated woman in the hood (husband is not in the group chat) who is good friends with these wives. She's already put herself out there on dating apps. Whatever, don't care. Not my business and I'm not worried about it. One of the single guys finds it and posts the profile to the group chat a few days ago. A few dudes make a few snide comments but it dies just as fast as it came up. No pigs.

Well, last night, out at the weekly cornhole tourney at our favorite watering hole, this woman is there. She has a few and decides to confront some of the dudes about our group chat, including me, and really makes it an awkward encounter. She also apparently thinks someone is going to use that information against her (well, don't be puttin' yaself out there...)

So we know what's up now: Someone leaked info to a wife.

We had our suspects and tried to figure out who did it while at the garage bar. We make it known to the rest of the group chat that someone is leaking.

This morning, one of the guys decides to make it an issue again and his words are pretty strong about it. I agree with him. Finally, a guy confesses, apologizes, and says he meant no harm but that he was hoping his wife would have a heart-to-heart with her good friend about already being on the dating sites before the divorce was final.

So, I take this to the court of Lunge bro opinion:

1. Boot him from the chat because he is a liability now to everyone in there.
2. Forgive him since he came clean, apologized, and hope he learned his lesson.
3. Get over all of it; it's not a big deal.
4. Cleanse the chat and start over with trusted individuals.

As you can imagine, contents of our dudes group chat are not well suited for the public eye.

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We will need to see pigs of newly single mom to get an accurate judgement***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:10 AM
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Man, I can't even trust my own group chat let alone here.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:11 AM
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If you can't trust a group of internet strangers who can you trust?***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:12 AM
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never thought I'd say it, but......


Aug 15, 2025, 9:59 PM
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I agree with the Facebookcooch on this one

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Re: Man, I can't even trust my own group chat let alone here.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:12 AM [ in reply to Man, I can't even trust my own group chat let alone here.*** ]
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How would you rate her though?

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:12 AM
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2. Make it clear for everyone that he was the last screw up. Now everyone knows to not say a word outside.

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Group chats between men should go like this

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:12 AM
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User 1: Picture
User 2: Nice
User 3: I'd hit it
User 4: Humerous .gif

At no point should a group chat between men contain a sentence.

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Forgive him and move on

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:15 AM
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It's a dudes chat. If it's not water under the bridge then it's really a chick chat. Plus that sounds like excellent content coming out of the chat. In a week this'll be even funnier. Fuckthe wives feelings. In my experience, they'll stop asking about the boys chat once their feelings are hurt a few times

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1. Group chats are terrible once you get above maybe 4 people. 2. Part of the

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:16 AM
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fun of posting dumb #### is the always-present possibility that it will get leaked to people you didn't intend it for. 3. Did this bro do anything that none of the rest of you wouldn't? I mean REALLY none of the rest of the wives heard about it? If not he doesn't deserve punishment. Circle the bro wagons. 4. Group chats are terrible.

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Man, I'm blessed with an amazing boys chat.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:19 AM
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I was always jaded with lame family group chats. One with ten good boys changed my perspective.

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10?! But gotta be only a few talking at once right? I mean if I want to hear 10

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:22 AM
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people all talking at once I'll just listen to the voices in my head.

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Id say 9 of 10 contribute daily.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:25 AM
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Usually 100+ messages a day. 3 people are in a separate tier of higher activity. It's basically a continuation of Johnstone from freshman year.

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Wow. I have a couple of groups that occasionally get fired up - talking about

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:31 AM
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CFB or whiskey usually - and I look at my phone and there are like 57 messages. when that happens it seems like a chore to scroll through that.

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It's a good day when I'm head down at work

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:40 AM
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And have 272 messages from the boys to read. It's like when your favorite author puts out a book.

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Im not in a group chat... sadface.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:44 AM [ in reply to Wow. I have a couple of groups that occasionally get fired up - talking about ]
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I dont know what it is... I never end up in the cool things. There has got to be a common denominator somewher... I just havent found it.

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I lucked in to having a friend that

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:54 AM
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Needed to voice his internal monologue. He added us and blasted messages all day. Eventually the chat got more participation. Mostly luck to know one person.

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Yeah, the two small ones I am in both have the same kind of instigator.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:58 AM
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Actually it's the same guy.

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We do it for hood because...

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Aug 15, 2025, 1:21 PM [ in reply to Im not in a group chat... sadface. ]
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1. We have a really social neighborhood.
2. Helps us know where the action is (pool, bar, garage, some newly separated chick's house)
3. Quality Lunge-esque content but without (or so we thought) public scrutiny.

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:17 AM
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Not sure about how bro code chats work but I dont why an almost single gal putting out dating profiles is particularly scandalous. I've known a lot of people who went through the divorce process and none of them refused to date prior to the divorce being final. Now I'm in NC where you have to be separated for a year before you can get it finalized which is a long time to not date. Maybe its different in states without that requirement.

Bro code wise I'd say it isn't a banishment offense or anything but does seem like the guys a bit of a busy body inserting himself into the dating life of somebody like that.

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:22 AM
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It looks bad, like a ho. That is all. Searching online is just looking to fuq.

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That's ridiculous. Many many couples these days meet online or in apps.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:24 AM
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Re: That's ridiculous. Many many couples these days meet online or in apps.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:35 AM
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True, but when that fast, looking for sex is the look.

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Hey Lester. People want to ####. It's biological.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:37 AM
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Those folks haven't been married long enough***

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:36 AM
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This post reeks of Baptist***

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:40 AM [ in reply to Re: That's ridiculous. Many many couples these days meet online or in apps.*** ]
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How fast?


Aug 15, 2025, 10:50 AM [ in reply to Re: That's ridiculous. Many many couples these days meet online or in apps.*** ]
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3 weeks, agreed.

Several months knowing the marriage won't be saved? Harsh.

And yes some use apps to ####. Some actually use them to meet peeps. Others (like me) don't use them at all.

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:38 AM [ in reply to Re: Group chat bro code ]
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Context here is important. If shes on tinder or aff or something like that then I agree its a bad look even if its nobody else's business. However if she's on match or some other more dating (as opposed to hooking up) oriented site then I dont think it's a big deal at all. A significant number of couples meet online these days as weird as that may sound to people of our generation.

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3. WGAF? Grown adult mens.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:18 AM
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Settle it at the bar.

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Eh, not that big of a deal.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:20 AM
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Dudes have inner circles and outer circles. A large text thread is an outer circle, and everybody on it should recognize that even with a bunch of vag-free humans, somebody is going to let sensitive info slip to a significant other at some point. Want to share a dating profile of said newly single-and-ready-to-mingle lady that we deserve pics of? Send it to 3 or 4 inner circle buddies, not to a crowd of 15 or 20 or however many are on the bigger thread.

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I guess there are a few things I need to know before I can render an opinion...

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:21 AM
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1. Are you taking social studies this semester?
2. Do you buy school lunches, or do you bring bag lunches?
3. Who do you normally sit with in the lunchroom?
4. Have you already asked somebody to the homecoming dance?
5. Will you be at Joey's party next Friday night?

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This is complicated.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:22 AM
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So, tell the guy y'all forgive him and to smarten up. Hit him in the nuts with something.

Keep the current chat population the same. Make a different one with the trusted people. Let the one slowly die without letting the #### up know what is going on. One will slowly die, blame it on folks being busy.

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Me and wife of started dating about a month before her divorce was final

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:22 AM
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I don't see why it's a big deal

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Are you sure this isn't a wimmen's group chat?

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:23 AM
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cause it sounds like a wimmens group chat

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It's men in Mt. Pleasant

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:26 AM
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about as close to women as you can get without cutting off the peen

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Re: It's men in Mt. Pleasant

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:29 AM
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Re: It's men in Mt. Pleasant

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:33 AM
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After Texas A&M?

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my hood group text has yet to be compromised

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:13 PM [ in reply to It's men in Mt. Pleasant ]
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I'm sure it has, so I will rephrase that to say, it hasn't created drama like this if/when compromised.

We are about as Mt P as it gets.

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:28 AM
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You forgot to at least rate her looks and body even without a pig. What's the verdict!

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:31 AM
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Body: 7-8
Face: 5

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Dude fessed up and said he was sorry...

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:33 AM
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give him props for fessing up and drop it.

oh...and post pigs of separated female.

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Re: Dude fessed up and said he was sorry...

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:37 AM
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Posting pigs here would make him seem like a hypocrite too his buddy who is a narc.

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But posting to our tmales would be individual and not a group chat thing.***


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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:37 AM
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5) Make him prove his loyalty by having him pull your pants down, spit on your cock and proceed to take all of you in his mouth.

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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:40 AM
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How to tell us you were in a frat without actually telling us you were in a frat.

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first, its a guy group chat?

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:38 AM
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second, he broke the code that should’ve been in the vault.



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Tell the women to mind their bidness.

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Aug 15, 2025, 9:50 AM
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People gonna talk. If she didn't want people talking about her, don't hoe herself out on a dating site while she's still married.

Then make another chat without that dude. He's pvssy whipped and untrustable.

Be a man.

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Was anything disclosed other than the fact she is on a dating website?

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:04 AM
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Like comments or other snide remarks?

If not, why the fuss? Seems like anyone could find out she on that website?

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I don't think so. She wasn't shown screen shots, just told about it.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:32 AM
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large hood group chat

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:11 AM
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isn't some type of place anyone should expect total privacy.

Seems to be a normal thing I'd think married couples would talk about in that type of social circle. Not a big deal, and dude even fessed up. Just move on.

As for her being single, context would help with determining how scandelous this is. She step out on him now trying to ho herself out on Tinder after being separated for 3 days? Or a mutual decision to get divorced with no immoral causes, been separated for quite some time, and she's trying to navigate dating and is on one of the non-Tinder sites? Or recently separated trying to work on the marriage and this activity will be the deal breaker?

I don't think the fact that she is separated in and of itself is enough to crucify her here.

From experience I can tell you that unfortunately this type of stuff becomes all the rage for discussion among married folks in hoods. Is what it is.

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Married folks in hoods have zero else to talk about.

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:30 AM
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How's jr's diaper looking?

When are you cutting the grass?

My car needs tires.

Wait..Debbie is on Tinder? LEMME SEE

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I guess since we're doing sweeping generalizations.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:39 AM
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drunk at the putt putt.


Ever have convos with your compound neighbor couples?***

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:33 PM
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option 3.

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:26 AM
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Otherwise if you guys are getting this worked up over it, maybe you should rename your group chat to "Estrogen Alley."

Maybe this is just us, but while my wife and I don't regularly go snooping, we generally have an "open phone" policy where there's nothing that would be off-limits if my wife really wanted to see it. So in that regard, a "men's chat" wouldn't be sacrosanct. Would I be considered a leak?

For example, I don't go sharing everything I post on here, but if my wife wanted to see it, I'd let her and take the fallout where it may come.

Seems the bigger issue is not the chat, but the fact that a) your buddy felt the need to have an intervention with the single lady, b) your buddy needs to set better boundaries with his wife if he's going to share information with her, or c) your buddy's wife needs to realize she's not meant to fix everybody.

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drunk at the putt putt.


A buddy lets his wife regularly root through his phone.

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:34 AM
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I don't get that. Its a terrible idea. She's gonna find something, that I'm certain is pretty innocuous, that will offend her. I'm also certain if he's rooting through her phone, he'll see the same at some point.

I don't want to see my wife's phone. There's nothing on there that involves me. In the worst case, If she's efffing around, finding out about it by rooting through her phone is just the early flight home. I'm gonna find out about it eventually regardless. And I don't have to be so insecure and worrying about it until I do.

Kinda like taking a dump, or cranking one out, some things should just be private. Does she REALLY need to see everything? Why?

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There's a big difference in need versus ability.

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:43 AM
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If you feel the need to do it, you're already in the mindset to find something that's going to offend you. But that's not the same getting real flustered if you wife needed to borrow your phone for something.

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drunk at the putt putt.


Hey, I got a TU from KMS on that one.

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:24 AM
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By default, I win.

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Don't say I never agreed with you

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Aug 15, 2025, 2:22 PM
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if I feel like I want to go through my husband's phone, that's the problem. If we gotta do that then why are we married?

Married for 18 years and never once looked at his phone or even thought about it. The only reason we track each other's iphone is because it's easier than texting where you at or have you left the grocery store yet?

Being by yourself has got to be better than being unhappily married.

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Wife and I know each other's passwords but never


Aug 15, 2025, 5:33 PM
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look at the messages, emails, etc. No reason to imo. Of course we are going on 39 years now. LOL.

We do use the tracking for the reasons you said. Especially if she is driving from Gvl to the beach by herself, I check on her progress.

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My wife can go through my phone all she wants

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:37 PM [ in reply to There's a big difference in need versus ability. ]
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I have the pron apps hidden

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Yeah, I'm going to give you some womanly advice

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:04 AM
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We spill good tea with cell phones on airplane mode, don't put the tea in the group chat with an electronic record...You need plausible deniability.

But also, that dude sounds whooped. That's some sacred marital gossip there... I would NOT be sharing with my spouse if they did me dirty like that.

Also a reminder why I don't get involved enough with my neighbors enough anymore to have a group chat. Used to be best friends with a neighbor and did everything together but she blew up her marriage and our friendship.

Tighten up that circle.

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Pillow case. Bars of soap.

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:07 AM
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He won’t do it again. Problem solved.

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MauldinT, where are you???


Did you order the code red?***

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YOU'RE ### #### RIGHT I DID!!!!!!!!!!***

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MauldinT, where are you???


Please forgive me if this has already been suggested but the only way to make

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:22 AM
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what he did right is for him to post nawty pigs of his wife in said group chat.

#amirite

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Wrong

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:28 PM
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post in this thread


Message was edited by: FBCoachSC®


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Quality discussion. Sounds like I need to add some of you to the chat.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:34 AM
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I will rip you apart over time if that's what your looking for. - Carlsbad


But also... I'd probably also be judgy McJudgerson about the woman looking

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:41 AM
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for a man too.

Most sane women I know would not be dating in the middle of a divorce. I hear most women saying that if something went bad or happened to their spouse they'd rather die alone than have to go through dating especially see what's going on those dating apps.

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Re: But also... I'd probably also be judgy McJudgerson about the woman looking

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:53 AM
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I'm definitely not a big fan of this woman's actions because she has shown she lacks personal accountability in a lot of situations (won't go into it), but I also realize I don't know the details of her family life and what's happening so I stay out of it. I say it's not my business and I'm not going to concern myself with what she's doing online.

BUT... that's partly why I was so irritated she publicly confronted me about the group chat last night. Like, woman, I'm not even commenting on your stuff. I don't care who you're hooking up with.

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You are the meme master. - RPMcMurphy®

I will rip you apart over time if that's what your looking for. - Carlsbad


A woman lacking personal accountability??

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:29 PM
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There's no effing way. I just don't believe that for one second.

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On the contrary, I've got a friend who is divorced recently and she is back on

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:28 PM [ in reply to But also... I'd probably also be judgy McJudgerson about the woman looking ]
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the market dating, etc. She did wait until the divorce was finalized to get back out there, but her mindset is more along the lines of "I wasted 10+ years with this piece of shidd and he cheated on me and did me wrong, I am entitled to have some fun now."

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Oh, and

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:29 PM
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she said dating sucks now

Lots of desperate dudes on the apps. Probably lots of desperate women as well.

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I'm watching my SIL go through the dating gauntlet

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:32 PM
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It's bad out there. According to her there are no good men out there anymore.

I told her if she stopped being such a ##### she might meet a good one.

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You know who doesn't have to get on dating sites?

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:35 PM [ in reply to Oh, and ]
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Hot chicks and rich dudes.

You never hear either one of them complain about "it being bad out there".

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Well, she's not wrong.

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:32 PM [ in reply to On the contrary, I've got a friend who is divorced recently and she is back on ]
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And certainly free to do as she wishes.

If that happened to me, I think I'd prob sit around in my living room in my boxers and do absolutely nothing for a while.

A long while.

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I guess her idea of fun and mine are different

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Aug 15, 2025, 2:26 PM [ in reply to On the contrary, I've got a friend who is divorced recently and she is back on ]
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Because dating sounds like zero fun. I'm too old to deal with someone else's reject.

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Me and wife of were still pretty young (early 20's) she wasn't looking for

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:31 PM [ in reply to But also... I'd probably also be judgy McJudgerson about the woman looking ]
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someone but when I showed her the size of my pallet deck, she fell head over crocs.

She married first dude to get away from her parents. Realized pretty quick that it's not going to work and bolted.

But now that we are both late 30's we have both said if it doesn't work out between us we will just get a larger house, she stays on one end I'll stay on the other because 1. both of us ain't giving up the kids and 2. neither of us is doing this #### again.


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"Head over crocs" is *sublime*

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Aug 15, 2025, 1:23 PM
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Nicely done

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The band?***

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Re: The band?***

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Aug 15, 2025, 1:38 PM
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Nobody ever told MrsCoach it was the wrong way?

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Now you f*cked it up.***

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Aug 15, 2025, 1:49 PM [ in reply to The band?*** ]
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Re: Group chat bro code

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Aug 15, 2025, 11:49 AM
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People need to be better liars.

Correct response: Guys, it was me. While drunk, I approached my wife to see if she'd be interested in setting up a 3-some with the "divorcee-to-be". She told me that the "divorcee-to-be" wasn't even on the market, and it sounded like there might be a chance so I showed her the dating app picture. (gives explanation and new found respect from the other guys).

Of course I didn't let her know who found the dating app photo (hidden threat) but it certainly went down hill from that point (instills sympathy from other guys).

This is how it should have been handled.

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Give him a punishment, but something funny/beneficial to the group.

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Aug 15, 2025, 12:24 PM
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Like, make him bring the ice for the garage bar, or buy food the next time y'all get together. Or give him a random fantasy football loser-style punishment...something that makes y'all laugh but also sets the standard that there will be payment expected for such transgressions against the code moving forward.

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Like the way this is trending

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Aug 15, 2025, 1:37 PM
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Make him post his pic on r/roastme

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MauldinT, where are you???


Paint his car.

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Aug 15, 2025, 2:32 PM [ in reply to Give him a punishment, but something funny/beneficial to the group. ]
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I think car definitely looks better now that it's green, but they mist a few

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Aug 15, 2025, 2:35 PM
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spots

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Gremlin


Aug 15, 2025, 5:36 PM [ in reply to Paint his car. ]
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what a loser car to start with.

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How have I not been watching this show?!?

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Aug 15, 2025, 6:45 PM
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You had me at “large” dudes group chat!!!

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Pay for all drinks for the guys for a night***

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Aug 15, 2025, 10:10 PM
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